Women's Secret Desire To Wear Bras During Sex

Do I need to point out that most men would far rather have the girls out where we can pay attention to them?

Maybe it's a fun way to get proceedings started, but leaving it on all the way through, not necessarily my favored option. Maybe the pollsters weren't able to differentiate between the start, middle and end of sex. Which is kinda sad.... ;-)

But what bra-wearers may gain in confidence they lose in nipple-access, and it's kind of a shame if body image issues are getting in the way of women's fun

exactly what I was thinking!!

but leave it on if thats your kick

can I leave my socks on then?? ;)

Oh ow that sounds terrible. The bra is the FIRST thing to come off when I get in the door. Most of the time Its been long out of the picture by the time sex is on the menu. And the thought of being stabbed in the chest whilst going at it. I mean, I'm kinky and all but that just sounds irritating ;)

OK, as much as I don't have sex anymore (except with bob), bras would be nice just for the fact that:

a. if you're on top, you don't want to worry about slappy, droopy boobs
b. if you're on bottom, you don't want to worry about slumpy, flappy boobs

Either way, if you have any sizable chest, it can hurt having the ladies unbound, which makes the sex less pleasant.

Variety is the fruit of life, right?? I take that philosophy straight into the bedroom and as important as changing positions is, so to is changing other aspects of the encounter, including occasionally leaving certain articles of clothing in place. Some bras are just sexy and as a guy, I can tell you... it doesn't always need to come off.

I am not large chested AT ALL -- but the only time I would like my bra on is when I'm on top -- I just don't like the way they look from that angle.

How do they look from down there, boys?

No way. I don't wear a bra unless I go somewhere public. I have alot of fun with my breasts before, during, and after sex to want to cover them up.

I find it very erotic for my spouse to remove my bra as part of foreplay to having sex. Especially if its a sexier bra than I would normally wear on a day to day basis. Sometimes he removes it slowly and other times, he can't get it off fast enough. And let me just say, there is nothing like the sensation felt once he's removed it and the hand to skin contact happens. That being said . . .

most Ladies I have known consider bras to be torture devices

I am one of those ladies. I tend to tolerate my bra on every day because I believe it's more professional to wear one in a work setting. Don't get me wrong, I've seen some women pull off the no bra at work outfit and do okay with it. They are usually the smaller breasted women - maybe A to a small B cup. However, as soon as I know my day is winding down and I'm not going out anywhere else, the bra has GOT to come off. I just reach that point in my day where I cannot stand having it on anymore. But I have no problem putting one on as part of seducing my husband. I have different bras for that type of activity and in that scenario, I benefit from the response it brings. I'm lucky to have a spouse who loves me for ME. I can be comfortable with clothes/bras/etc. on or off with him because he doesn't have any built in expectations. That's nice after being married to my first husband who wouldn't have sex with me unless I was dressed up in lingerie.

I'll stop rambling now, I think my point was made. :)