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New Sex Offender Laws In Georgia

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A sex offender who was convicted or committed a crime before June 4, 2003, will not have any restrictions on where they live,work, or volunteer.

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Loretta Kemsley

Judges will now have the discrection to exempt some registered sex offenders from restrictrions on where they are allowed to work.

One of the biggest changes, judges are allowed to remove convicted sex offenders from the state registry after they’ve completed their sentence. Making it a lot hard to keep track of offenders and predators--making sure they don't strike again.

  • 6 votes
Reply#1 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:20 PM EDT
MoCowgirl-1193719

I was curious on why the "change". It seems that the law that was enacted 4 years ago had "retroactive" consequences that is at the heart of this issue.

Maybe, the following article can explain what happened.

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2010/07/19/georgia-forced-soften-laws-targeting-sex-offenders/

Georgia was lauded four years ago by conservatives for passing one of the nation's toughest sex offender laws. But the state has had to significantly — and without fanfare — scale back its once-intense restrictions.

Georgia's old law was challenged by civil liberties groups even before it took effect. After losing court battle after court battle, state legislators were forced to make a change or a federal judge was going to throw out the entire law. Now that the restrictions have been eased, about 13,000 registered sex offenders — more than 70 percent of all Georgia sex offenders — can live and work wherever they want.

  • 5 votes
#1.1 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:54 PM EDT
RV in GB#1

Loretta, I was hoping your title would be followed up with "Sex Offenders Will be Moved to Death Row."

  • 3 votes
#1.2 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 6:12 PM EDT
Sherry working hard

I will stand by wha tI have been saying for over 20 yrs. Some of our law enforcers are protecting their own.

Rv no death to sex offenders is the way the public wants it. AMAZING I have to pick up the pieces of these POS

  • 4 votes
#1.3 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:59 PM EDT
RV in GB#1

Hey, I'm just saying, the number of repeat offenders for those who are executed has to be very low. ;)

  • 5 votes
#1.4 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:32 PM EDT
Sherry working hard

These terrible waste should be destroyed. They cause so much demage mental and physical. Its just horrible what they do!

  • 3 votes
#1.5 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:51 PM EDT
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LordFluffy

I'm actually in favor of this.

I've done some study into what little it takes to get on the registry. I think it's okay for a judge to have discretion to remove someone who had consensual sex with a 16 year old when they were 18 and hasn't done anything else to be branded "sex offender". Also, I doubt these rulings would change the life of someone who was convicted of raping a 13 year old.

  • 8 votes
Reply#2 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:50 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

The one that bothers me the most is not the judicial discretion, but the one where predators convicted before 2003 aren't under any sort of supervision or restrictions.

  • 4 votes
#2.1 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:56 PM EDT
LordFluffy

To be honest, I'd want clarification on how that is going to be implemented. I'm curious if the date was due to when the prior restrictions were passed and if they are now exempted due to overturning a law and ex post facto restrictions.

  • 1 vote
#2.2 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 11:58 AM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

I suspect that is the case, but the article isn't clear about that. I haven't found an explanation in other articles either.

  • 4 votes
#2.3 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:11 PM EDT
Jim Helbig

I agree that the actual nature of the offense should be taken into account. Some states have laws on the books making "sexting" by teenagers an offense categorized as worthy of being on the sexual offender registry.

They need to make it clear exactly what the offense is, and go from there. But I have no sympathy for true sexual predators who prey on minors. These people are sub-human and do not deserve to live.

  • 3 votes
#2.4 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:17 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

It isn't the state laws that affect sexting the most. It's the federal child porn law. Legislators are working to change the laws that were never intended to punish the kids, I'm glad to say. Sometimes technology catches us unaware, and we have to change the laws to catch up.

  • 4 votes
#2.5 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:24 PM EDT
Jim Helbig

Agreed. Whenever I think about the law catching up with technology, I can't help but remember the Napster fiasco.

If it's a Federal child-porn law, then the Feds need to address it. I must apologize for my lack of knowledge, but I do have my opinions on predators. Thanks for a very good post.

  • 2 votes
#2.6 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:34 PM EDT
Sherry working hard

Yes my son is an adult and his girlfriend is 17, I just hold my breath until she turns 18 next month and he 19. I could see where the girlfriend at age 17 could get mad at the 18 or her parents could and boom record. That should be adjusted to within reason. But the real predators, well lets just say I have seen what the do and its not pretty.

  • 4 votes
#2.7 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:16 PM EDT
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SocialistCitizen

Most Americans would be shocked to learn that they have done the same thing that has landed people on the sex offenders registry.

  • 3 votes
#3 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:33 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

Most people haven't had sex with underage minors. Most people haven't been flashers, rapists, stalkers or predators.

Are there quite a few who have done things on dates that is actually sexual assault or rape and thought they had the right to do it? Yep. But that doesn't mean they are the majority of the population, does it?

If nothing else, half the population are women. Most women aren't sex offenders (although they can be). That alone would put sex offenders in the minority. But most men don't do what sex offenders do either. So how do you arrive at "most of the population"?

  • 4 votes
#3.1 - Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:53 PM EDT
LordFluffy

In Virginia, moving a child 15 feet against their will is considered Abduction.

So, to put this in practical terms, if a babysitter picks up a kid and takes them upstairs to put them in bed, if the child says "no" they have technically done something that would put them on the sex offender registry, which would not detail their offense, just that it occurred and what the charge was.

This is but one example.

  • 3 votes
#3.2 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:00 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

Parents do that all the time. A babysitter has the authority from the parents, so I don't see how that could be construed as kidnapping in any court. The law would apply to those who are not authorized to touch or be around the child. BTW, the child does not have the right to grant that or not. The authority is vested in their parents.

  • 4 votes
#3.3 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:14 PM EDT
LordFluffy

A babysitter has the authority from the parents, so I don't see how that could be construed as kidnapping in any court.

I doubt any prosecutor in Virginia would actually take this case, but I wasn't trying to present a great case for prosecution. I was backing the statement "Most Americans would be shocked to learn that they have done the same thing that has landed people on the sex offenders registry."

I have a friend who is on the registry. He was using the bathroom at his parent's house during some sort of social function. One of the neighbor's kids walked in on him as he was finishing up. The girl freaked out a bit and he attempted to calm her down . including holding her arms.

No touching occurred. She testified she never saw his bits nor were his pants ever open. When she told her father what had happened, she was asked "Did he touch you?"

My friend was prosecuted for abduction (for holding her arms) and a couple of other charges which I can't call to mind right now. He had an indecent exposure charge prior (which he got standing on his porch in swim trunks). His lawyer counciled him to plead out or he was looking at 2 years. He agreed, served his probation and was on the registry.

The static that comes with being put on the registry has caused him problems finding work and has gotten him harassed. This will follow him anywhere he goes and has made his life harder.

This isn't even getting into things like the lady who was sentenced to 40 years for having a teen touch her clothed boob or the 14 year old kid who was charged with abduction for taking a toddler out of a store while trying to find the toddler's mother.

Getting on the registry or being charged with a sexually based offense is surprisingly easy, comes with enormous penalties and once it sticks, is nigh impossible to get rid of.

Child rapists are horrid human beings, don't get me wrong. But not everyone on the registry is a rapist and depending on the state, they get treated the same as if they were.

  • 3 votes
#3.4 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:51 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

Not every sexual assault is rape, so I don't know why you think that rape is the only thing that should be considered.

Why would a girl "freak out" if she saw nothing and he was fully clothed? Every child sees fully clothed men (and women) in all kinds of settings. Why would he grab her? Why not let her leave the room? That makes no sense to me.

The boy who took the child out of the mall was correctly charged. He did not have the right to take a child anywhere no matter what his excuse. I suspect those charges were later dropped because of his intent but the police would have been remiss if they had not acted to protect the child while the situation was investigated.

I don't know anything about a case where a child touched a woman's breast, so I can't comment on that.

  • 4 votes
#3.5 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:48 PM EDT
LordFluffy

That makes no sense to me.

It's the facts.

He did not have the right to take a child anywhere no matter what his excuse.

So you think there should be a chance he would be convicted and put on the registry for life for this? He brought the girl back inside when they saw nothing. He was charged the same as if he'd thrown her in a car and drove two states away. I fail to see how this is being "correctly charged".

I don't know anything about a case where a child touched a woman's breast, so I can't comment on that.

She made an inappropriate advance on a minor, held his hand to her chest and that was apparently the end of it. Because she refused to take a plea, it went to trial and she was convicted. Of a note, if instead of making the boy touch her, she'd killed him, she'd have gotten a lighter sentence.

I'm not saying what she did was good. I think it's good that it was brought to light. But the issue is that the punishment does not fit the crime.

And once again, all of these prove the point: What it takes to get on the registry is laughably minor.

  • 3 votes
#3.6 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:28 PM EDT
LordFluffy

Not every sexual assault is rape, so I don't know why you think that rape is the only thing that should be considered.

And also, I wasn't saying only rape should be considered. My point is that once one is on the registry, it is assumed that what you did was unthinkable and you should be executed in some gross and dehumanizing manner. The fact is that while many people on the registry have done the unthinkable, they are lumped in with people who have taken a whizz in public.That's not justice.

  • 2 votes
#3.7 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:38 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

I agree that there are various levels of sex offenses, and they should not be treated the same. However, some offenders who have committed grave offenses manage to cop a plea to a lesser offense so it looks like what they did wasn't so bad. Should we do away with allowing them to plea to a lesser charge? That would keep the public better informed on what they actually did. It might also set more of them free because the felony case against them is hard to win. So it's tricky.

Many of those who commit lesser sexual crimes in the beginning accelerate in their assaults and become more violent at time goes by. That needs to be taken into account to. How? I'm not nearly knowledgeable enough to know that answer.

As to your friend, I'm not disputing what you wrote. I'm just saying it doesn't make sense to me. There must be something more that would put it in perspective.

As to the boy at the shopping mall, he doesn't deserve to be on a sex offender registry for good intentions in helping the child, but there have been children his age who have led other children away from a public place and done serious harm to them. There was a case in England where two boys led a toddler away from a store, tortured and murdered him. That's only one among many. So the cops have to consider these possibilities when they come across a situation like this. They would be remiss to dismiss the child out of hand and later find out that he has a record of harming other children. Better safe than sorry.

The woman who put a child's hand on her breast is a sexual predator. Just because she didn't go further in this case doesn't mean she wouldn't. As to the law on murder, I don't know the state, but if that is the case, then the law should be changed.

Sexual criminals are permanently affecting their victims. Their sentences should reflect this. As has been pointed out, they don't change their ways except for the worse. The average child rapist has raped 100 victims before he's ever caught. The average rapist is usually a serial rapist too, as are those who commit other forms of sexual assault. The public deserves to be protected.

Are the laws perfect? Nope. No law in any category is. Do we need to know more about how to deal with this situation? Yep. A whole lot more.

But in the meantime, we need laws that try to protect future victims because they most assuredly will need it.

  • 2 votes
#3.8 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 4:05 PM EDT
LordFluffy

Many of those who commit lesser sexual crimes in the beginning accelerate in their assaults and become more violent at time goes by...

The average child rapist has raped 100 victims before he's ever caught. The average rapist is usually a serial rapist too, as are those who commit other forms of sexual assault.

I'm going to ask for backup on these statements. I see it said, but I don't see anyone linking to the proof.

There must be something more that would put it in perspective.

In Virginia, there is a principle that states that in child molestation cases, accusation equals proof. This means there needs to be no physical evidence, just an accusation.

The speculation I've heard is that the child thought she was going to be in trouble for walking in on him, so she lied to protect herself.

The lawyer asked the child directly "Did he pull your hand towards his privates" and she said yes. That is enough to convict even though she testified he never said anything suggestive, told her to touch him or actually touched anything, clothed or unclothed.

There was a case in England where two boys led a toddler away from a store, tortured and murdered him.

Fair enough, but the actually took him from sight of the store, I'm imagining. This kid took the toddler through the doors and onto the sidewalk. If he hadn't actually breached the door and just looked through the window, he'd have been charged with nothing.

Making a family fight a criminal conviction in court is not "better safe than sorry". It's using a sledgehammer to open a walnut.

The woman who put a child's hand on her breast is a sexual predator.

She was drunk and stupid. I don't know that means she needs to be put away for 4 decades. Also, nothing I read indicated that she'd done anything of the like before or any likelyhood she would again.

Misdemeanor offense? Sure. What is likely a life sentence? Hell no.

And while I understand that sexual abuse destroys people, I'm thinking the kid will recover from having one hand laid on her shirt. The punishment simply does not fit the crime.

But in the meantime, we need laws that try to protect future victims because they most assuredly will need it.

And what we don't need are laws that are easy to break and end life as you know it if you're convicted.

  • 2 votes
#3.9 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 4:29 PM EDT
Loretta Kemsley

I'm going to ask for backup on these statements. I see it said, but I don't see anyone linking to the proof.

Jessica Lunsford - The Murder of Jessica Lunsford

All about Polly Klaas and Richard Allen Davis, from — Profile of ...

Chelsea King and Amber DuBois Deaths: San Diego Judge Salcido ...

On the numbers of victims:

Another perspective on the problem is offered by Anna Salter, one of the foremost experts on sex offenders in America. She writes the following in her popular book Predators:

"The dry research figures only confirm what I have seen over and over in this field: there are a lot of sexual offenses out there and the people who commit them don't get caught very often. When an offender is caught and has a thorough evaluation with a polygraph backup, he will reveal dozens, sometimes hundreds of offenses he was never apprehended for. In an unpublished study by Pamela Van Wyk, 26 offenders in her incarcerated treatment program entered the program admitting an average of 3 victims each. Faced with a polygraph and the necessity of passing it to stay in the treatment program, the next group of 23 men revealed an average of 175 victims each."

  • 2 votes
#3.10 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 6:56 PM EDT
LordFluffy

Okay, I never said that sex offenders don't re-offend. But that wasn't what you were arguing before.

Your contentions were 1) Sex offenders often become incrimentally more violent, which none of your links support and that 2) the average, not uncommon but average, child rapist has a hundred victims before he's caught. The link you provided to Wikipedia directly contradicts that, indicating that sex offenders have a lower recidivism rate than other criminals.

    #3.11 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:13 PM EDT
    Loretta Kemsley

    Did you bother to read about the previous offenses of the offenders who murdered each of the victims in the current case but did not murder the previous victims? No? How did you miss that? Is that not an escalation?

    The book I quoted is written by an expert, not an anonymous person editing on Wikipedia, which most everyone knows is riddled with errors. So you prefer to take the word of the anonymous person who is in all likelihood not an expert and may be a sex offender over that of a recognized expert?

    Besides, not getting caught again is not the same as not reoffending. If they were good enough to get away with it a hundred times + before being caught the first time, what makes you think they couldn't get away with it again? We all know that sex crimes of any kind have a very low arrest rate, so not being arrested again is not an indication that they've reformed.

    Here's an article on escalation that gives two in-depth examples of how they escalated over time:

    Dangerousness: Predicting Recidivism in Violent Sex Offenders

    There is a pattern to the violent sex offender's crime that makes it likely he will ... The overall pattern is one of tandem fantasy/behavior escalation. ...

    Here's another that doesn't give specific examples but discusses escalation:

    What Is Sexual Addiction? | Psych Central

    The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” In other words, a sex addict will continue to engage in certain sexual behaviors despite facing potential health risks, financial problems, shattered relationships or even arrest.

    ...Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.

    For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape.

    Sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders. Moreover, not all sex offenders are sex addicts. Roughly 55 percent of convicted sex offenders can be considered sex addicts.

    About 71 percent of child molesters are sex addicts. For many, their problems are so severe that imprisonment is the only way to ensure society’s safety against them.

    • 2 votes
    #3.12 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:06 PM EDT
    LordFluffy

    Yes, I did read about history. I'm not trying to play down the gruesome nature of the crimes or the actions of those who perpetrated them. You are saying this supports your statement that "Many of those who commit lesser sexual crimes in the beginning accelerate in their assaults and become more violent at time goes by...." While these crimes are horrible, I'm not sure they represent a verifiable trend.

    Furthermore, your statements were in response to me pointing out that it's easy to get on the registry and it devastates your life if you are. The implicit argument is that it's justified to put a flasher away for life because eventually he's likely kill someone.

    Again, I don't deny the heinous nature of the events you present. I'm saying that they do no support a statistical likelihood that justifies severe punishment of lesser crimes.

    Second, I understand that not everything in Wikipedia is to be taken as gospel truth, but what I was referring to was a linked study by the Department of Justice. I would hope you'd accept that as perhaps somewhat unbiased.

    The link you provide is about establishing likelihood of committing further or more aggressive acts, not about actual rates of re-occurrence.

    It also does not, in any way, support your claim that the "average" child rapist has 100 victims prior to being caught. Even your previous link said that "23 men had an average of 175 victims each", which doesn't really give a good idea what range that was taken from, how truthful they were or if they were typical of the thousands who commit such unspeakable acts each year.

    Third, sex addiction is a seperate issue. Sex addiction is about sex and leads people to cheat and be promiscuous. Rape is about power. One thing is not the other. If you can provide some correlation between sex addicts and rapists, I'd like to see it but I know of no such correlation. It's like saying gambling addicts are bank robbers because both things involve money.

    I'll restate my point: You're making claims that I don't know can be backed up. And then you're suggesting them as justifications for laws that punish people severely even after they've served probation or jail time.

    I don't think this a good line of argument and I don't think it helps anyone, including those trying to protect people from rapists and molesters.

    • 2 votes
    #3.13 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:33 AM EDT
    Loretta Kemsley

    I've given you plenty of links. You're going to deny there is any correlation because it suits your argument that these poor predators are gettting a raw deal.

    I've already agreed that different types of offenses need to be treated different, with th caveat that plea deals skew the record and make an offsense seem less than it was.

    I'm not going to place the rights of a predator above the rights of the victims and potential future victims. There is plenty of research that shows both that these predators do not stop their crimes, even after prision, and that they escalate in violence.

    Until there is a way found to change those facts, I support severe restrictions on them. However, I don't support the restrictions of them being on the streets so much as I do sentencing that prevents them from being on the streets again.

    • 2 votes
    #3.14 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:55 AM EDT
    LordFluffy

    I've given you plenty of links.

    And I've demonstrated how those links do not support your argument.

    You're going to deny there is any correlation because it suits your argument that these poor predators are gettting a raw deal.

    I'm going to deny it because I haven't seen it demonstrated.

    I'm not going to place the rights of a predator above the rights of the victims and potential future victims.

    We're not talking about predators. We're talking about people who get lumped in with predators. You're not going to hear me defend someone who has committed a violent sexual offense. Your will hear me point out that witch hunts help no one, including the people you're trying to protect.

    There is plenty of research that shows both that these predators do not stop their crimes, even after prision, and that they escalate in violence.

    Then it should be no problem for you to back up your argument by presenting it.

    Until there is a way found to change those facts, I support severe restrictions on them.

    You've not presented facts to support your argument. You have presented things that "everybody knows", i.e. rumor.

    However, I don't support the restrictions of them being on the streets so much as I do sentencing that prevents them from being on the streets again.

    I agree; the punishment should fit the crime. And right now, it doesn't.

    There is nothing that is going to give a victim back what they've lost. I think as a society, we want revenge more than we want justice for these offenses. It's understandable but it leads to the sort of madness we're seeing in the system now.

    • 2 votes
    #3.15 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:12 PM EDT
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    bluearcher

    There are actually cases where a sex offender could not find a place to live do to restrictions, neighborhood protests, etc. and led to paroled individuals being homeless.

    In one such case, a paroled offender was living under a bridge and his parole officer attempted to revoke his parole for not maintaining a specific address. The judge ruled in favor of the parolee.

    You commit a crime, pay your debt to society and then become a second class citizen based upon what you might do in the future. Debatable.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#4 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:09 PM EDT
    MoCowgirl-1193719

    I think in the case of pedophiles there is documentation that they continue to be pedophiles upon their release and/or after "counseling", so LE is "erring" on the side of caution in protecting children....and I support this.

    • 3 votes
    #4.1 - Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:30 PM EDT
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    Truth1109

    Loretta please don't bantar back and forth with LordFluffy, because he is obviously one of the persons, why these stricter laws were put in place. How I know?

    I raped a 45 yr old lady when I was a 18, and it took me 10 years into my 25 year sentence to actually admit that I was guilty. For the next 5 yrs of incarceration, I began counseling others who had been convicted of a sex offense, as well as writing programs for youth, about understanding the consequences of their decisions. Fast forward 11 years after release(2010)

    I am now 44, years old and a single father (her mother died 6 yrs ago), and these new laws have restricted me from taking my daughter to the park, Disneyland, Soak City or any other place geered towards minors. Legally, I am not allowed to attend school functions, or allow her to have sleep overs.

    I di not have an offense against a child, and I have been a pilar of the community every since my release(Minister, food distributor to the poor, donate needed materials to schools without proper funding..etc.)

    See those people who keep siting the "underage person who slept with his girlfriend, or the unrinating in public argument" These are the people who have not changed.

    Although I am an excellent father, society only sees me as the person that I was when I was 18.

    Wehn does the forgiveness comes. I am required to function as every other member of society, paying taxes, but I don't have the same rights of due process, equal protection, or the right to privacy?

      Reply#7 - Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:49 PM EDT
      Loretta Kemsley

      Thank you for your honesty. I know that is difficult sometimes. Parts of your post make me curious, like your statement that it took you ten years to admit you'd raped a woman. Was that denial to yourself, or was it to others? Of course, there are the why's: why did you rape her? Why did you deny it after conviction? Why did you finally admit it?

      There are many men like you were, including men who've never been caught. They too don't believe or admit they've raped someone. It is more common in our society than anyone wants to admit. Men who are very sexually aggressive on a "date" are rapists, although they often get away with it. They don't think of their aggression as rape, but the women do. The women don't experience it as mutual consent or enjoyable. They experience it as having no choice because he won't take no for an answer and of fear of what he will do if they fight too hard.

      As to forgiveness, I believe there are only two people who can do that: the woman you harmed and yourself. The latter is often the harder because you have to live with yourself each and every day. I hope she forgave you long ago, even if she never told you. That pain is a heavy burden for her to carry. Most people believe forgiving someone else is for the other person's benefit. It isn't. If the person who was harmed can "forgive" (perhaps not a good word), they can let go of the burden they've been carrying. Too often, we continue to do the work of the person who've harmed us long after they are gone from our lives. We continue to beat ourselves up instead of forgiving not only them but ourselves.

      As to society's forgiveness, that's too vague. We're each different, so there will never be consensus. My concern is for future victims of sexual predators, so I support strict laws. It has nothing to do with hating men who've raped or not forgiving them. It's about stopping violence against women. So far, we haven't even begun to make progress on that. While other crimes are dropping, violence against women is either holding steady or increasing in too many areas.

      Our entire society is invested in violence against women. We are still a patriarchal society and patriarchy cannot exist without oppressing women. Violence is one way of doing that. That's why we hear people condemning rape victims with "if only you hadn't..." "you caused it...." statements. Same for victims of domestic violence.

      The fear of rape is a potent invisible prison. Women hear it all the time. "You can't do this or that" because you might be raped. It's even on the Gibson tapes. That's another way of blaming women for the violence inflicted upon them and a way of trying to keep them under male control.

      I don't have easy answers because the entire situation is very complex. As long as our society lives in denial, we aren't going to make much progress. However, I wish we could.

      Does your state have any mechanism for you to go back to court after a certain time period, have the court review your record and, if applicable, remove the restrictions? Some states do. Apparently Georgia is going to become one of them from this article.

      • 2 votes
      #7.1 - Sat Jul 24, 2010 11:25 PM EDT
      LordFluffy

      Loretta please don't bantar back and forth with LordFluffy, because he is obviously one of the persons, why these stricter laws were put in place.

      Um... did you just call me a sex offender?

      I'm not. I'm not on the registry. I've never been charged nor convicted. I've never done anything that would get me charged or convicted.

      The reason I argue these points is exactly why I stated. I believe that the punishment, in many cases, doesn't fit the crime.

      I've been called a lot of things on the 'Vine. This is the first time I've been disgusted by an accusation, however. Well done.

      Though you've demonstrated one other problem with sex offenses: See those people who keep siting the "underage person who slept with his girlfriend, or the unrinating in public argument" These are the people who have not changed. As soon as someone is accused, it assumed they are guilty and if they are accquited, they escaped; the presumption of innocense goes out the window. A load of assumptions can be tacked onto them effortlessly and they can be dismissed as non persons for the rest of their days.

      Which is all well and good if they've done something deserving. But put simply, there are people on the registry who haven't done anything of that caliber. Some of them have done stupid things. Some of them have done bad things that can be forgiven. Some of them have done nothing wrong. And they are lumped in with the people who have done horrible things on the registry.

      But go on believing that all those who are on the registry got exactly what the deserved. After all, the justice system is perfect in every other way, right?

        #7.2 - Sun Jul 25, 2010 2:32 PM EDT
        Loretta Kemsley

        Truth,

        Lord Fluffy is right. Accusing him of a crime is against the CoH. I see that you are new, so you might want to review it. There is a button at the bottom of the page where you can access it.

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        #7.3 - Sun Jul 25, 2010 2:46 PM EDT
        LordFluffy

        Loretta,

        Thanks.

          #7.4 - Sun Jul 25, 2010 3:06 PM EDT
          Loretta Kemsley

          You're welcome. I should have caught it the first time I read it.

          • 2 votes
          #7.5 - Sun Jul 25, 2010 3:43 PM EDT
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